(8) act in slightly unique or eccentric ways, within reason: something that makes people turn their heads, but doesn't reflect poorly on your values, or your character, or you ability to provide value to your audience. Just something to put a stamp on your "individuality". It's not a flaw per se, but it can be tied into your past or a strength of yours, which almost makes the oddity endearing. Think of someone with autism who has a twitch but is really good at puzzles. So long as the twitch isn't too disruptive, the people who are of good character will view you in a humanized light. Of course, some people will just be like "wtf that's weird", but it's on you to decide if you want people like that as your target audience for friendships, relationships, or politics. Or think of Trump, with this weird hand gestures. People make fun of it, but I guarantee some people are like "oh that's just Trump, haha". (9) shares stories where you attempted to overcome a fear or make a change in your life: present the problem clearly & why was so hard for you to go through it, immerse others in it, and then show growth ex.
Leaving the home, or growing up, or learning to make friends, or going to the gym for the first time etc. (10) share stories where you faced an inner struggle, that doesn't reflect negatively on your character: for example, situations where you weren't trying to make a change but you were faced with a burden that you had to handle, like guilt, depression, bitterness etc.
Or incorporate it into your backstory when sharing about yourself. (4) sharing desires & wishes that you used to have when you were younger, and that are universally understood at emotional level, to soften peoples' view of you: like desiring love, acceptance, or purpose, and the growth during that situation. (5) share stories about yourself being thrust into danger: dealing with a bully, facing a disaster, or dealing with someone who tried to hurt you in the past. (6) share stories about yourself being thrust into grief: situations where you had to suffer, like the passing of someone important to you and how you felt and went through it, or even getting a disease or illness that you may have recovered from, and how you grew from that. (7) indirectly share stories where you cared for someone else, at the cost of yourself, but make it seem like something that was necessary to share as a part of a different story where you didn't intend to slip it out: make sure to share it in a humble way, in the sense that you don't realize that you're being kind in those situations and that it's almost a given for you to act like that since that's just how you interact with the world.
(1) give off the aesthetic of having valued traits like loyalty, love, gratitude, or courage, and make it seem like it's a given, or an unconscious part of you that you can't control: for example, by helping a child, making your nephews' day, or standing up for someone who's in a weak situation publicly. It's a win-win. Little effort from you, goes a long way for your reputation, and them. (2) be known to be particularly good at something: display a specific talent. It could even be something super random and simple. Just get people engaged in the process of seeing that talent and being a part of the process of you using that talent & preparing to use it, without making it seem like you're trying to show off about it. (3) find ways to simulate the aesthetic of being treated unjustly or being the underdog of situations: people naturally feel bad for someone in these situations, so make yourself out to be the one who was being held back by powerful obstacles, or some enemy holding you and the group back and how you're so close to your goals.